KnE Social Sciences

Published date: Oct 13 2025

Journal Title: KnE Social Sciences

Issue title: The International Conference of Psychology 2025 (IcoPsy 2025)

Pages: 199 - 215

DOI: 10.18502/kss.v10i25.19895

Dagna Kocurdagna.kocur@us.edu.plFaculty of Social Sciences, University of Silesia, Institute of Psychology, Katowice

Aleksandra ŻendaFaculty of Social Sciences, University of Silesia, Institute of Psychology, Katowice

Yudi Tri HarsonoDepartment of Psychology, State University of Malang, Malang, East Java

Paulina Wardawy-DudziakFaculty of Social Sciences, University of Silesia, Institute of Psychology, Katowice

This study examined the relationship between relationship mindfulness and relationship satisfaction, exploring whether affectionate behavior—both its display and receipt—acts as a mediator. The sample consisted of 162 Polish participants in romantic relationships (82 men, 80 women), aged 20-59 years (M = 29.94). Relationship mindfulness was measured using the Relationship Mindfulness Measure, affectionate behavior was assessed through the Public and Private Romantic Display of Affection Scale, and relationship satisfaction was captured with the Couples Satisfaction Index. Results showed that relationship mindfulness was significantly positively associated with both displaying and receiving affection in private contexts, and these affectionate behaviors were positively linked to relationship satisfaction. Public expressions of affection showed weaker or nonsignificant associations. Mediation analysis confirmed that private affectionate behavior partially mediates the link between relationship mindfulness and relationship satisfaction. These findings extend previous research by highlighting the importance of both displaying and receiving affection as key pathways through which relationship mindfulness fosters relationship quality. The results suggest that cultivating mindful awareness within romantic partnerships can enhance relational well-being, offering valuable implications for relationship education and therapeutic interventions. Future research should replicate these findings in culturally diverse samples and consider experimental approaches to establish causal relationships.

Keywords: displays of affection, relationship mindfulness, relationship satisfaction

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