Published date: Jan 28 2022

Journal Title: KnE Social Sciences

Issue title: International Conference of Psychology 2021 (ICoPsy 2021)

Pages: 109–124

DOI: 10.18502/kss.v7i1.10205

Fakhrunnisa Nurhayati Dawenan - https://orcid.org/0000-0003-1228-2511

Pravissi Shanti

This research aimed to describe husbands’ social support and anxiety in mothers who have experienced mom-shaming in Malang city. A quantitative and descriptive correlational approach was used. The study aimed to determine whether there was a relationship between these two variables. Data were collected using The Husband’s Social Support Scale and The Mother’s Anxiety Scale. 118 women participated with the following characteristics: (a) mothers who have experienced mom-shaming; (2) mothers who have double roles such as a role as a wife and mother; and (3) residence in Malang. The research findings produced a Pearson correlation of -0.349 with a p-value < 0.05. Based on this result, it can be concluded that there is a negative correlation between husbands’ social support and mothers’ anxiety.

Keywords: husbands’ social support, anxiety, mom-shaming

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